My cat
seems cold, and not very friendly or affectionate. Is there something I
did wrong in raising her? My other cat is just the opposite, and is what
people consider a lap cat.
Cats, like
people, have personalities that are derived from hereditary factors as
well as life experiences. You can modify them slightly, by addressing
problems that may be inducing unwanted behaviors. Your cold cat may be
jealous of the other cat, or may need a little coaxing at the right
time to bring out affection. It's not as much wrong or right, as it
is mood and personality